My friend, Vicky Ann, arrived with the rain and cooler temperatures. It would be a week before she saw the sun in Vietnam, something I’d spent months avoiding. For someone who has never left North America, I am so impressed with how well she has managed here. Then again, anyone who knows Vicky Ann would not be surprised. It is fun watching how even the smallest things (like laundry hanging from a balcony, a man carrying bread, a woman wearing a hat, or anything involving electrical wires) continually amaze her. I am seeing Vietnam through new eyes and enjoying every moment.
Before leaving Hanoi, I had to finish up some work, visit a school, say goodbye to friends, and I had a chance to be a tourist for a change. Vicky Ann came along for the ride with an open mind and sense of adventure. We had a long bus ride on a “disco bus” with blaring music and a disco ball, got lost in a province three hours away, rowed through caves, ate pho on low plastic stools on the street, met many people, and walked miles and miles every day in the rain. I even lost her on a tour of a pagoda complex. The guide warned us to stay with the group, but Vicky Ann ran ahead and wasn’t found for nearly two hours. After that experience, she won’t leave my side!
Now that we’ve moved on from Hanoi, we have had a chance to enjoy the beach (thought she would never leave) and are learning about everything else Vietnam has to offer.
As we wander through Vietnam, we are constantly approached as husband and wife. Being older than your mid-twenties and unmarried is practically unheard of here, so we are used to it. It doesn’t take long for my travel companion to whip out her phone and start showing pictures of her grandchildren and all the snow at home. It doesn’t matter if the Vietnamese don’t understand her, she keeps talking and making friends wherever she goes!
If you want to see more photos from our trip, I have introduced Vicky Ann to Instagram and she is addicted. Follow her here: @vdeledda.
January 20, 2017 @ 06:33
How wonderful!!! Oh, Vicky Ann…..you make me giggle!!!!! So happy to hear you are both having an amazing time!
January 23, 2017 @ 08:10
Many, many laughs every day.
January 20, 2017 @ 07:09
Repeating myself, but these posts make my day!!!
January 23, 2017 @ 08:10
And your comments make our day!
January 20, 2017 @ 07:29
Great photos, great times and guess you also made it to Halong Bay! Back in the States and missing it all so much. Keep on enjoying.
January 23, 2017 @ 08:13
No Halong Bay, but we did do “Halong Bay on Land” which was great. Hope you’re having a good transition back to school.
January 20, 2017 @ 07:38
I am stunned by the beauty and humanity in these pictures. That is so great that Vikky Ann made a visit!
January 23, 2017 @ 08:15
Thanks, Elaine. It is beautiful.
January 20, 2017 @ 07:40
As everyone else thoroughly enjoying the post! Pictures are outstanding from both of you!! Loving every second of it!!
January 23, 2017 @ 08:15
And she’s loving your likes and comments on Instagram!
January 20, 2017 @ 10:16
So glad you are having a great experience together! Great to see all your pics.
January 23, 2017 @ 08:16
It’s nice to have someone from home see all of this, because I can’t begin to describe it all myself.
January 20, 2017 @ 12:03
It warms my heart to see my favorite “husband and wife” together and making MORE happy memories together. Continue enjoying your adventures on your “honeymoon!” Love to you both xoxoxoxo
January 23, 2017 @ 08:17
She’s already planning the next trip.
January 20, 2017 @ 12:59
Glad to see that Vicky Anne has an adventurous spirit also. What a wonderful opportunity to see the sites, people and places together. Hope the poetry teaching is going well. The cave are so interesting. Spectacular pictures from both of you. Thank you, again, for sharing
January 23, 2017 @ 08:17
Vicky Ann is very adventurous, for sure. Thanks for reading and responding!
January 22, 2017 @ 17:00
Vicky Ann makes retirement look oh so good! What an adventure you are having. Glad to hear Vicky Ann is staying close by your side. What an adventure you are both having!!! Loved the post and seeing you both!
January 23, 2017 @ 08:18
Yes, she does make it look good. Wish I could join her, but it’s a little too early.
January 26, 2017 @ 10:19
Great to see you on you’re adventures around the country.
January 28, 2017 @ 08:52
Thanks, Diane. It’s nice to have a break from work.
January 26, 2017 @ 18:52
Tim, thanks for showing Vickyann a good time, and yes she’s alittle ADD, love her sister K
January 28, 2017 @ 08:53
Glad you’re following along with our adventures. I’m having lots of fun with your sister!
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